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baldandblack 40 M
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Posted on: Apr 17, 2007

What is the Big Deal?

This is my first article but it is an interesting one. I am
a young/old black man that is successful in my business
adventures and I have always wondered - why is such a big
deal that a white female date or have a relationship with me
or any other black man. Really, what is the big deal. Well,
I have thought it through and this is the culminatin of my
thoughts. Since, slaves (at the onset of Slavery) were
basically considered property and their value less than that
of a farm animal (seriously, slaves were just as soon killed
as opposed to healed as opposed to a prized cow) then the
line of thinking would be that black american and more
importantly black men, were inferior and less than an
animal. Now, for the big shocker. Hundreds of years later,
those that have such an issue with an inter-racial still
have that vein of superiority running through their veins.
When they see me with a white female, you can literally see
it in their eyes. "Why is she with that animal"? Sad but
true.

 

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anonymous

Posted on: Apr 22, 2007

Re: What is the Big Deal?

Man you will see the society it's jealous from guys like you
and me I have a similar problem with my girl when I went to
his parents they look me as I was the devil in self I'm
white and I love my chocolate baby so they need to face it

 

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anonymous

Posted on: May 10, 2007

Re: What is the Big Deal?

You do have a point, but I think things are changing with
the younger generation. I am older and find it imposible to
find a white woman in my age group who would date me, but
looking around you can see the trend is being broken in the
younger fOlks

 

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namethatwork 47 M
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Posted on: May 18, 2007

Re: What is the Big Deal?

If two people are attracted to each other who cares what
color they are. Live is too short, jumpin and enjoy it.

 

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cavadik 49 M
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Posted on: May 19, 2007

Re: What is the Big Deal?

I think mixed marriages are fun....& confuse other folk who
are still entrenched in their old fashion ways....they're
old farts!!! ::e

 

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anonymous

Posted on: Jul 05, 2007

Re: What is the Big Deal?

I think what B&B says is true, but I also think that
there're old school black folk who feel the same way about
interracial dating just not to the extent as some white
folk.

 

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specialist42 48 M
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Posted on: Sep 19, 2007

Re: What is the Big Deal?

Bro I have dated white woman like Wesley Snipes.  I don't
even see the looks anymore. Neither do I care what people
think. Hell, what other people eat don't make me full
either. As long as the on lookers keep it civil, we have
only one problem and it aint mine. I'm glad they look at me
because what they are really looking at is a leader and not
follower. Keep it 100 partner

 

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sexygirl111 26 F
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Posted on: Dec 20, 2007

Re: What is the Big Deal?

Everything is different now... But even if it was not,
specialist said something very true... Don't care about what
people think ::c

 

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